My personal journey from an exclusive sexual top-man into my almost exclusive sexual bottom-man that I am today, is hardly unique or unusual. The reason that I write this as an introduction is because I know of other men, all of us either bisexual or same gender loving (gay), who have experienced a similar odyssey. Also, I am under no delusion that I am exceptionally unique.
I had my very first male-to-male sexual encounter (more than sucking another man's erect penis) when I was 16 years old. This involved me as an inexperienced (virgin) top-man. I stuck my fully erect penis into an 18 year-old white guy's willing and moist ass (buttocks). This particular escapade didn't involve an exceptional amount of foreplay as it was winter and we were in the back seat of my bottom-man's car.
My experienced bottom-man was excited about the size of my erection and of me penetrating his eager and proudly offered anus. He already had sexual experiences and knew what he liked and what he needed. When he discovered that I was completely without any insertive (penetration) experience, he enthusiastically wanted to give me his sphincter as my initiation "piece!"
He did! I did! He enjoyed my cumming (ejaculation)! I enjoyed my ejaculation, too!
We repeated this cumming lesson almost everyday for about six weeks total. I got my fucking experience, physical practice and a whole hell of a lot more! He then met another white man and moved along.
My very next bottom-man was a brotha who, like my very first fuck-buddy, had previous experience with a man inside him. He, too, was 18 years-old (almost 19) and a college freshman. After my first time fucking him, he praised my exceptional ability. His ass was the first ass that I ever rimmed. He was also the first bottom-man to ever mount and ride my manhood! Another brotha is sometimes our best teacher!
His comments on my tongue rimming his delicious buttocks helped me to develop and master my oral skills on that aspect of a bottom-man's needs. His movements while he mounted my erection taught me the pleasures of having a passive partner take action and ride my manhood! We both gave one another practice while sucking each other's cocks and exchanging information on the benefits and values of each oral experience we engaged in. My second bottom-man was equally as educational as my first. We lasted together as a regular "couple" for over six months and we ended our time together when he transferred to a different university that autumn.
My escapades with Bottom #1 and Bottom #2 provided me with invaluable opportunities to develop and establish beneficial and outstanding knowledge and skills as a top-man. Through these experiences and lessons, I gained both joy and pleasure in fulfilling my obligations as a fuck-buddy for other men and as a proud same gender loving man who was confident in his ability and stamina to physically satisfy and service other bisexual and gay men!
Author's Note: Part 2 of this series will publish here in November, 2019.
Gay, nude and proud!
Rashad Meekins
